no not always positive.

Its taking your feelings and situations good or bad from the past and putting them out there and onto your therapist. The hating your therapist because that feeling is there for and about the topic being discussed is TRANSFERENCE

the situations where you are wanting the therapist to take care of and care for you and do things you missed out on is called ATTACHMENT. You trust her so you want her to do those for you it falls into the reparenting section of the attachment issues.

I am using capitals to separate the two titles not for yelling at you. You're doing great.