with my first T i decided to stay with her for now but am really having a hard time not being able to e-mail her.my moods are all over the place and i know i will not talk and i need to let her know what is going on.and just now my son sent me a im saying he is on standbye right now to head over to mainland japan for humanitarian help.i am so scared for him things are bad over thare.right now i am thinking i may have made the wrong decision.how is any of what she is doing helpfull