I have a friend who genuinely cared for someone online,and trusted them even though they knew better,and they were referred to as an on-line fling.They thought this was at least a 'friend'.Why do people pretend to care for others and end up devaluing them? Or why do people who are good end up mistreated by others? Why can't humans find genuine value in other humans? For anyone who's ever been hurt...do we not learn to treat others as delicate spirits? I just wonder why any person should care for or open to or trust...anyone.Of course they say humans are the only beast who remains on friendly terms with their prey until the moment they intend to eat you right? I understand wolves so much more clearly.There is one thing which saves a delicate heart,and wise people are engrained with it.....it's distrust.~WO.olf