I would both get a lawyer and another surgeon. You should not have had those problems for two years with the doctor lying to you and making it look like it was your fault, etc. I would not let the same surgeon who wasn't helpful and screwed up in the first place operate again on the other side!

I'm so sorry you are having these problems; my husband's ex-wife has had problems with hip replacement too (her "new" hips keep popping out of their sockets and the replacement parts were put in backwards for one at one time!) and I know it is no fun, even when it goes well. But you shouldn't have to put up with continuous misinformation and bad experimentation, just because you are "young" (what does age have to do with the fact you have a problem!).