Hi, AliDuran, welcome to PsychCentral. It does sound like there is a change in your husband's behavior because of the med; I would discuss that with him when he hasn't taken the med and see if you all can't decide if taking it is worth it to him and you. He may have to decide to work with some anxiety rather than avoid it by making difficult discussions even more difficult.

However, if you are having the "same" arguments all the time, I would work on solving that so they don't recur. If problems are not getting solved, it's not how you are arguing that is the problem. Maybe writing things down would help?