((((sabby, grandson, daughter, and family))))

My heart goes out to you and for what is going on right now. I am sorry that the police took so little concern for him and his mom. I know that this is really hard for you and that it is all you can do to hold it together.

Sometimes just doing what you need to do right now is okay. If you feel like breaking down and crying then you have every right to do just that. Being strong sometimes is allowing ones self to feel and to do what you need to do to release all that you are holding.

Sabby does not need to shut up and be quiet. This is hard and what you feel is okay. I validate how you feel and what you think. Crying is a good thing and you deserve that outlet. Nothing and no one has the right to make you feel you need to be quiet or not feel what you are feeling.

I know that your grandson means the world to you and you to him too. Knowing that you could not be there yesterday had to be so hard for you and I feel your pain and sadness through your words. In all of this the good thing is now he is getting the help he needs and deserves.

As profoundly sad as this is, he is much like his grandma, and he is reaching out and asking for help. He is very intelligent and I know that he is going to be okay. It may take time but he has you, and his family to be there for him and he knows he is loved.

Sabby, know that we are here for you and uplifting you at this time in our thoughts and prayers, and your grandson and family. Please take care of you and allow yourself to cry and feel as you need to do. It is okay. There is nothing wrong with that, so give yourself permission and cry.

I thank you for posting and want you to know that you are not alone. I know it feels alone right now but you are surrounded by friends that love you and care. Please keep posting and letting out how you are feeling. I am here for you and love you more than you know. If you need anything please ask and you know I will be there.

Sending many gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

dps