I am beyond sorry to hear about your conversation with your ex and all the financial stress you are facing ((((((((((ss))))))))))))) Gosh. That is really tough. I don't fully understand the legal ins and outs of the situation, but I understand enough to know that it's a very bad situation.

Does it effect your disability?? It sounds like you have now completed that application, so hopefully it's a separate issue and that will go through. I'm sorry the job you interviewed for pays an inadequate salary. Is it one of those situations where you are actually better off financially if you don't work?? Again, sorry I don't understand more about this.

I was also very saddened to read about your Aunt's reaction to your 30th anniversary suggestion. That must have really hurt.

It just sucks that you are getting it from every which way right now. I wish I could be more help. Please keep talking here as much as you need to. We're here for you ((((((((((ss))))))))))