I already think my T is pretty great and he tells me a lot that he doesn't want to be my "ideal" therapist. He thinks he would be doing me a diservice by always saying or doing what I want...and I do think he's right...but...
Just for fun...the MOST important thing would be physical touch..hug me, hold my hand, or come sit next to me. I'd like to be able to see him whenever I wanted...either a couple times a week or maybe an unlimited session (I could acuatlly stay until I was done with my thoughts for the day). I'd also like him to call me after a hard session or during a tough time.
After writing this though, I'm seeing that he's already kinda perfect for me