This is going to sound really odd after all my recent T Dramas (!), but I don't think I want a perfect T. It would make it even harder to tolerate the imperfection in all other relationships, make it too difficult to leave T and go into the world and live. It would take away the healing from repair, and the opportunities to learn that repair is possible.

I think, like PoetGirl said, I want a good enough T. And I have one.