You're wrong about one thing...this isn't just your husband's problem, it's your problem, too. And he can't fix sexual addiction alone. He needs a good therapist, and you. In a marriage, one spouse's problem is both spouses' problem.

I can't give much advice on your problem, because I suffer a bit from the same kinds of feelings. I'm not dealing with a sexually-addicted partner, but I do have low self-esteem and a poor body image because of the images and attitudes given to us by society.

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Does 20 years of marriage: of faithfulness and love not account for any thing to a man these days.

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It really never has. Men have cheated since time began. Women have, too; I'm not trying to say all men cheat, and women don't. But I do think more men cheat than women; either that, or women are better at hiding it. Anyway, there are loyal men out there, but they are sometimes hard to find. The Internet just makes it easier for anyone to cheat.