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in my humble opinion, he's emotionally and verbally abusive. this probably won't change. i encourage you to get help. the abuse can escalate. i don't feel you will find happiness in your marriage. he's making you feel "less than". it happened to me in my marriage and i lost any sense of self worth. it took time for me to overcome this in therapy. i did seek help. even a support group. it enabled me to gain the courage to leave him. i learned he thought of me as his possession, not an equal partner in the marriage. i wish you well.
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