Yes, there are many things that go with having "others" that makes for a dx surrounding it. Things that t here verified to the best of his capabilities.

Having said that, I wasn't dxed till I was 37/38. However, I always "knew" things about self. I just thought everyone was like that as well.

SJ, this is something you need to work on with t and be honest. She will know what to ask. There are many things that factor into dx's and it's confusing. Everyone supposedly is "parted" to a degree, just as dissociation can be normal. It was sooooooo confusing for me WITH discussing it with t. It still can be.

Maybe you should print this out and take it to her?

Love,

KD