I think this is a problem for me too. My T is so great at relationships, that now I have these high expectations for the outside world. I have now experienced someone being kind to me, someone being attuned, what it is like to connect deeply with someone. Now I feel like it is hard to settle for mistreatment or indifference in other relationships. On the one hand, this is good, as it is practicing good self care. But on the other hand, maybe I am going to be very lonely for the rest of my life.

I would want my T to be just like he is, except for his phone skills. They need improving--such as returning client calls. It would also be kind of fun and different if there were more hair.