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focus on the good.....that baby for one thing.....and know that in time the dust will settle....it always does...

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Maybe that part of what's keeping me upset as the days go by and the "incubus" gets out of the hospital. The dust MAY settle if she ALLOWS it to... until the next time she feels like it. Then she'll take the kids, including the baby, away from me. It's the prospect of that, that is wearing on me. I can't play her games anymore... and I won't. So if I won't, I'll lose the kids for good. I've already lost one set of grandsons because of their mother's irrational thinking. If I do play her games, my sanity and my integrity are compromised. Can't win for losing!! Maybe you have some ideas on this?? Anybody??