Thanks turoquoisea- we do have that. Of course we fight sometimes and have our differences but one of the things I've always loved about him is that I can go out with my girl friends to the bar or karaoke or something and he doesn't pester me the whole time, I don't have to worry about being home at a certain time or explaining myself because he trusts me. And that goes both ways. In fact, we both like having the other have their own time and their own thing. And we do have a really close bond. We both know things about the other that nobody else knows. Maybe I'm just over analyzing. I've been known to do that lol :-/