
Mar 14, 2011, 12:32 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2009
Location: getting use to my own skin again
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Originally Posted by Crew
I know for us, we had a few parts have the problems you were stating. For us, if that part was going out then it was that part that dealt with the therapist.
We have to remember that these parts saved our life yet can be extremely hard to deal with when healing. I know we had parts that would stay up and make sure these parts didn't leave.
Maybe start writing to your system, telling your system maybe that your in healing now and that there is places to
go and get help. Working on being co-conscious is a huge thing which for me meant going over and over and over and over it staying safe until your aware of each other.
Hey good luck.......
you'll be in my thoughts ((((ladymacabethadmunsen)))))))
Great ? by the way 
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Just wanted to second what crew said. The parts that are doing it need to learn to work with the whole. Can you ask your partner to set up a safe word so that the person can learn to tell which one is out.
Just because the body does it , it does not mean that everyone likes it. It was not until we became co- con that alot of old behaviors stoped as healing took place. and remember there was a time that they endured things that you were not able to. This is the part that help saved us during the abuse but can be quite frusterating when they no longer need to pprovide that protection and need to learn a different life style.
from all of us to all of you
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson
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