quote : WikidPissah - The problem is this, I have a lot of very dark thoughts, and sometimes they slip out. T's don't want to hear any part. They just slam you in the hospital so they don't have to deal. Personally...it's been years of T, and no one will let me talk thru these thoughts. I need to talk thru them, they aren''t going away. I can't be hospitalized every time I say what's in my head..it doesn't work. And hospitals don't work. quote
 WP, That's what T's are supposed to do, is to help you work through these thoughts! Have you discussed any of them with this T before? I know that some (very few that I know) out there do automatically freak out and think it's time for a little trip, but for working through the difficult areas is what they are trained to do. If he has said he will work with you maybe you can preface it with - I have these thoughts and that is all that they are and I need to discuss them. Please help me work through them - he will understand that you are not in danger.
I've told my T some pretty bad things and the only time she suggested I go to the hospital is when I really needed to go (I was delusional at the time (and had my date and plan set of which I didn't tell her).)
I am sure your T will work with you through these thoughts. Hang in there.
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Next, get a hammer.....
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