Ugh, thanks for the kind words. Yesterday we talked, and he of course took no blame for being out of line and in fact said I was.- There's no use argueing with the likes of him. He's such a pompus narcissicstic ***! argh. I need another job anyway (not like that'll be easay to find) I guess this is the little extra push I need? Argh. I'm the kind of person who dwells on stuff, even though I try really hard not to. SO I'll be at work and when I have time where my mind wanders I find myself getting upset all over again . .