Myzen, I do not know if this applies so take it or leave it. For me, I may want to do a specific thing at a specific time with someone. Then the time comes and I am too anxious or in a place of wanting solitude. I tend to need a lot of solitude and I am not sure that is always healthy so at times I force myself to do the event and it goes fine. I missed so many things this past summer that I regret. Sometimes if I can just make myself do it it works out.