I was the same religion as you and married a muslim man. I know there are many interfaith marriages that work but alot that don't. I didn't think it would be a problem but it has and the difference in culture is also a problem.

I don't agree that only specific groups go heaven IMO. We're not supposed to talk about religion at PC so I hope this thread remains open. You could always PM me if you want. To me the heaven part should be the least of your worries - if you have kids what will you both agree to teach them - I think this will be the bigger problem. I ended up converting but I regret it now. Would her family expect you to convert?