T is in his 40's and looks like the other southern guys in the area. He is handsome but doesn't know it. His eyes are kind and honest. Others may say he is a bit heavy, and he notes it from time to time mentioning needing to work out more, but he really isn't big... He is just healthy. He always has nice dress shoes and long feet! LOL! And before anyone gets into the transference comments about that, I do allow myself to wonder if the myth is true, but I am gay and have no need to dwell on the question. LOL. I just notice the feet because I tend to look at them a lot.
He wears dress slacks and a button shirt, but he is not stuffy at all. He has a nice boyish hairstyle that is playful. Just a decent guy who could be your doctor, lawyer, or plumber and be likeable in any role.

I usually see him right after work, so I am in my jeans and a shirt. I don't have to dress up for work, so that is good because I am not into dressing up - at all. One alter loves to dress up, but that part of me doesn't come out much. She hates the way I dress. Too bad :-) Do I dress up for T? Yes and no. He made a comment once about liking a certain pair of sneakers I love, and I find myself wanting to wear those on session day. That is transference with me wanting to make my father like me though and I know it. So I debate from time to time about that and make sure I wear what I want without regard to what I think T wants. So that is that.