Have you talked to your T about any of this? It might be really helpful to talk to her about it. A few times I have felt confused or hurt by the things my T said or did, and it ended up that I was reading something totally different into her words and actions than she intended.

Also, it occurred to me that maybe your T doesn't want to continue therapy after you move is because she may feel she can't help you as well over the phone. You should probably ask her about this too, because you have a right to know why she changed her mind.