My T loves to dress and shop and she is very very fashionable.
I used to spend a lot of time thinking about what to wear. I used to want to buy clothes that looked like hers and did several times. They are no longer part of my closet: they were not me, they were her. lol
I used to spend a lot of time thinking about what to wear, but now I usually go right from work and we dress casual there. One time, when I was sooo wanting her to hug me, I used to choose what I wore based on if I thought it might be appealing to someone thinking about hugging another someone. lol

I told her about that