Perna, why would I need to forgive MYSELF for anything? I haven't done a thing.
The point is that she admitted she had done it intentionally, she knew what she had done. I've brought it up with her and she won't say much.

Jaybird- when the hairdressers cut my hair, they have never even remotely cut off as much as she did, what she cut off was literally half my hair, perhaps even more. I only ask if her having BPD was her reason for doing it because of other things she used to do too, and the way she is now.