I would be one of those Mormons who left the church. I was born & raised in Utah. Never believed a word of that crap. It was shoved down my throat my entire life.

When I told my family I was moving in with my boyfriend, it did NOT go over well. And then when I revealed that I was pregnant on my wedding day, yeah, that wasn't so nice either.

I moved 3 states away to get away from that culture and my family. My family is finally starting to leave me alone about religion.

The Mormon church is very strong in it's ability to either keep people together or rip them apart.

I hate to say it, but she WILL at some point try to convert you. It's part of the religion. She wants to take you to the temple and marry you in the covenant so that she WILL see you in the afterlife. She may not admit this, but if she is like most of the Mormons I know, this is what she hopes will happen.