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Old Mar 15, 2011, 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted by pachyderm View Post
In my family, for my mother, it was a reflection on me. Or more accurately perhaps, my mother felt it was a reflection on her, which she could not stand, so she had to direct her rage onto me.

Jexa, could something like this be true of your past too? Someone gave you the idea that trauma was so beyond the pale that it could not even be thought about?

No, more like, how could you think of that as traumatic, you are so weak, such a crybaby, get over it, you've never been through anything traumatic.

I will reply more later.
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