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Mar 15, 2011, 12:20 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2010
Location: Florida
Posts: 2,853
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Payne1 said: Ditto to what the other people said, Ygrec. Your life Is NOT over until it's over. My parents reared me in such a way that I only could start living a somewhat normal life later on. And I am still learning. No, I will never be able to go back and have a normal childhood and particularly a normal time as a teenager, but I am still working on picking up from where they left off and making course corrections.
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You said "I only could start living a somewhat normal life later on." Well, I can't even say that. My family life was sufficiently strange as to prevent me from ever living a "somewhat normal life." Now, with T, I may have some chance at it, though I'm not sure. The only thing I'm sure about is that with T's help I'll at least understand what went wrong and how to deal with the suppressed emotions.
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I know you have done a lot of good in your life in other ways, and you did the best you could at the time. And you are doing a lot of good here. To some extent, you just didn't get the chance to learn people skills.
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And that best was miserable, I assure you. I'm glad you think I'm doing good here. And you're right about people skills. But people skills are fundamental. It really doesn't matter how smart you are if you have good people skills.
Take care! 
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