Are all men control freaks!!! I can quit here at the forums fairly easily but I can't quit a 40 year marriage. At my age, financial security and companionship mean a hell of a lot. I'm sorry if that makes me seem like a glutton for punishment. I'm really not. My therapist has helped me make the decision that is in my best interest. Sometimes I just need some understanding.

Forgive me for talking to myself.