hi hugs, that's so funny, i totally do the same thing. i don't write them down, but yes, i do keep track in my head so i'm not wearing repeats. i don't know why this would bother me though, who cares?!

as for my therapist, she dresses nice, but casual. and yes, i've seen her feet in the summer, but it doesn't bother me in the slightest. one time, we had to do our session barefoot, which was actually kind of nice!