I don't understand her thought process about it... she doesn't understand it... but believes it just because she was born into it. I would love it if she converted to y religion... but I don't know if that would sit well with her family. She loves them a lot, and the last thing I would want to do is cause them to be split for the rest of her life. She says she would never force me to convert to being mormon, and that it's my choice... she really wants to get married in the temple because it's been her dream for so long... a problem isn't future children for us...we'll just let them choose what they want.. but if she marries a non mormon, she wouldn't be able to go to temple anymore... at least I think that's what it was.... I'm pretty sure... I respect her choice to follow it... I haven't told her that I don't exactly believe it... I don't want to split her beliefs because of me.. but I really do love her... sometimes I think I should just join her religion so I can make her happy... I just want her to be happy.... I wanna stress that she doesn't even ask me about this at all or even try to convert me... but she has mentioned that we wouldn't be together after and that during our marriage she wouldn't be able to go to the church... please provide more insight. Also, did not know religion wasn't allowed on here... oh well, please don't delete the thread....