I'm so sorry your pnurse doesn't seem to get it. Does she want you to have more often appointments? It seems like she should be willing to answer your concerns if she is willing to allow you to email. I'm sorry this does not seem to be the case.

I know that next fall or winter sounds like a long time (and it is). But does the other pdoc have a waiting list you could get on? So that you can see a future date when you will be able to work with someone who can better suit your needs? Have you contacted the other pdoc in town and checked w/ him/her to see if they would take you on as a patient? I have had a T offer to get on the list of the insurance I had to make it easier for me (there are very few in my area who are on my sucky insurance.) Call the pdoc and explain your situation. Maybe something could come of it?