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Originally Posted by treehouse
Just got this weirdly formal e-mail from T. I'm afraid I'm in trouble. I don't know what to do
Hey Tree - there are a lot of straightforward and complicated feelings around Monday's session, too many to address through email. If you would like to talk before Thursday, I would like to do that face to face. If that does not work out we can schedule a time to connect by phone tomorrow. I have availability for session tomorrow at 2pm. If that does not work for you, I would reserve that time to connect over the phone. Let me know your thoughts.
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((((Tree)))) I think it's so formal because he doesn't want you to read anything more into the email than what's written. He wanted to make sure you didn't get hurt more. But, like me, you found a way to read more into it...rejection, being referred out...that thought hurts so badly doesn't it? I really think if you just see him it will be ok, like he said in his all-too-cheery voice mail, you can work it out, how many times in the past 3 and half years have you gotten freaked, and how many times has it worked out. Trust the relationship.