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Originally Posted by turquoisesea
Hi there, I'm not really a partner of someone like this I saw the forum and was curious  then I read your post, and I hope you don't mind me talking my head off a bit? (if you do lemee know)
Something struck me when I read this - you're talking so much about things that you do for your partner but you never mentioning her ASKING YOU to hold back? Has she? Or is this reluctance coming from you? |
thanks tuquoisesea...
it's coming from me.
i have never had to deal with such intense feelings like rage or shame or some of the other things PTSD and DID has brought to my partners life. i no longer know what to do when those things enter daily life and i just want them to go away. i know ignoring them doesn't help. but i also know that it really isn't much of my own stuff to deal with. it's her stuff. that's where i get all confused i think. i just dont know what to do...
thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences too... it does help give me some perspective. something to think about.