I'm sorry your husband laughed. I can't imagine how bad that felt... my husband was paralysed below the waist for the last few years of his life, and he made an effort to make me feel beauitful and wanted. I didn't even have to ask him... it never crossed my mind once he lost the use of his lower limbs. But he thought how I might feel, and put the effort in for me. I read something like this, and I think, even though I'm widowed, I was always beloved. I've probably had all the sex I'm ever going to have, but we enjoyed every minute of it.

Your husband may laugh about it, but he should grow up. Sex is for grown ups. He's depriving you... I am so sorry. Plese let us know what happens next?