Thanks for your response costello. It is a very difficult situation. There is quite a hisory of depression and other disorders. His mother, father, and grandmother all suffer from something as well. They are all very open about it and I have known him for a little over 10yrs. so I have been able to piece together the info thay have given me as well as what I can remember. I go to the doctors with him and be sure to give them my outside perspective becasue he is really good about lying and knows just what to say. I don't know what to do anymore, I am just sooo tired.