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Originally Posted by madisgram
what's the reason for your bf feeling threatened? if he's comfortable in your relationship and trusts you he should feel ok about your friendships with other guys, imho.
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I think he feels threatened because my friend and I sort of have a history, but not really. My friend and I were jokingly married on Facebook for a few months and we were very close until I ended up seeing another guy for like a month and a half. I actually was pretty much head over heels for my friend, but I was too shy to admit it directly to him and to see if he felt the same way, so I ended up moving on. Two relationships later and we are still friends and we had a short period of time exchanging some rather risque photos. But nothing more than that ever happened. And he's French (Quebec, not France haha) and the accent just makes me melt.

But I've evolved from my "school girl crush" to more of a friend crush in that I just really enjoy his company.
My boyfriend knows all of this because I believe that honesty is the best policy in a relationship. But I think he feels threatened because I can talk so openly with this friend about my problems. I think a mixture of the trust I have in this friend and my previous infatuation is what makes him uncomfortable, which I can understand as it would make me uncomfortable if the situation was reversed. We're only human right?