I have decided to try to do more things with my friends, go to movies, horseback riding, etc. And concentrate more on what is good for hubby and I together, and just let thing ride with the kids. This past two years has been a real hassle, and we are due for some real peace. This past weekend, my husband and I cut a load of wood together, went shopping, watched a movie, went out to breakfast on Saturday (this is every Saturday), and I spent time with a close friend yesterday, and we went to a movie together while hubby watched football. Before that, hubby and I went for a walk on the bike trail nearby. We had a real nice weekend, and I hope to plan many more. Makes a person feel a lot better to keep moving.