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Myzen said:
Rhapsody, I believe that your husband needs to convince you that he loves and respects you as a person, not just in a sexual way; that is the key to all good marriages. He needs to learn to share that feeling with you, and maybe he will. Sometimes men have loving feelings that they can't share or express, and they need some help.

Your fear of replacement must be horrible for you, and that is a deep fear for many of us. Without security in our own hearts, life is a hard road for us, full of anxiety.


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That probably says it all... for while my husband has been able to see past his evil sinful ways (after 10 yrs) and how it has torn me apart (inside and out) and how he is now trying to stop all the negative behaviors, especially the lusting that has destroyed our love, I still cannot seem to get past the after effect, the residue that is left over in me - the way it has left me feeling and/ or reacting.

While I know my husband loves me this one thought continues to control me.... I can only have victory (heal) when I am able to FEEL that my husband needs me as much as I believe (THINK) he emotionally needs them (the sexy images).

LoVe,
Rhapsody -