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Old Mar 16, 2011, 05:10 PM
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My husband had received a new job and we will be moving out of state within the next week. I had posted a thread about this earlier about money issues, however, a new problem has risen and it's more personal.

A few days ago we had to visit the doctor, it seems my husband's gallbladder is being very dysfunctional and may need it taken out this week. He was very bummed about it because we are suppose to be moving this weekend. Of course, we talked to his boss and he was very understanding and we are waiting to take it out a few days after we move in. We also found out he has thyroid-itis (I think that's what it's called), but a very minor case.

However, the apartment complex that we are suppose to be moving into this Saturday is now saying we can't because they are closed and no one will be there. Which would have been nice to know WAY earlier. So now we are "uping" the move date to Friday.

Because of all of these things happening he is slowing at his ropes end. I am upset all this is happening too, but these are things you can't help. Not everything goes as planned. And I have told him this, but he just mopes around all day saying how awful life is. But I really feel he's taking all this the wrong way. Yes, he needs is gallbladder taken out, but it wasn't that serious, they caught it early enough so he can have a quick recovery and he will be feeling like a new person in the future. And moving the move-in date is not that big of a deal. Sure, not as many family members can come help us but it's going to get done.

Does he have a right to be this upset? Or am I just seeing everything in rose-colored glasses? Any advice would be great.