Sounds difficult. Your insurance company should send you regular statements, you should always review what they have paid because a provider can bill wrong and it screws everything up. Those statements will tell how many "units" or types of sessions (med management; therapy).

My advice would be to try harder to let your T know how much this is bugging you and have him deal with pdoc, especially since they have a good relationship.

BTW...my son is 23 and very much a loner. He doesn't like the bar scene and picking up girls...which is what his friends do. So he spends a lot of time with a few MUCH older guys occasionally. I worry about him sometimes, but I can see that it is a choice he has made, and I don't push him. Not every 23 yr old should be living in the city and bar hopping.