I'm sorry she is treating you like that.

Its her baby and you really don't have an obligation to help at all especially if she is not working. She is lucky you help at all; Its not your responsibility.

I know if I ever had a kid my mother wouldn't help. Honestly, I doubt she would even send birthday presents or visit at all.

You need to take care of you. You need to set some boundries with your daughter and she needs to take more responsibility for her child. She shouldnt expect you to help and if you do help she should be extremely grateful and thank you.

I know how you feel about animals. I much prefer my animals to people. They dont lie or hurt.