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Mar 16, 2011, 08:26 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi Elana ~ Remember that he's had your whole lifetime to drill this nonsense in your head ~ and you've lived your lifetime HAVING this stuff drilled into your head ~ so it's going to take awhile for you to overpower this crap that he's giving you. Bless your heart, what he's done is verbal abuse. I wonder if anyone has EVER dared do anything like this to HIM?? Somehow I doubt it.
Of course you're frustrated! Your first reaction is to scream & holler at him, but you can't. So you're sitting there with fists clenched, teeth clenched, READY to scream -- but not daring to.
One of these days, when you're ready, you WILL be able to "cut the cord" and say what you want to say. But until that time, when he starts on one of his tirades, just picture a nice tropical beach where you're laying in the sun with the most gorgeous man you ever saw! You're both drinking Margarita's ~ and the breeze is wafting over you. Aaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....................................Hugs, Lee 
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