What do you really want to do? Do you love her? Do you feel sorry for her?

The thing is with this type of thing, is that ultimately you have to figure out what's best for you. Is this working for you? Are you really happy? Do you feel like there is a future with this person?

Lemme put to you this way - if she makes you cry more than laugh, it's time to move on. I firmly believe that the person you're supposed to be with helps make you a happier person.

I think she's unsure of what she wants, but doesn't want to lose you. But you need to think of yourself and what you want. If you aren't sure, then don't pursue.

I only say this because I learned the hard way. You can't make someone care, and yeah - you can miss someone but not really want to be with them. Loneliness is a weird thing that way...

Take care, listen to your gut and do what's best for you.