This is a tricky one! I've been with my husband for 10 years and he still walks on eggshells around me! I don't know if anyone can truly understand unless they go thru it themselves. That is why I like PC. People here feel just like me. I find it strange yet so refreshing to have others saying the way they feel and I'm nodding my head yes because I feel that way too. I don't know if they will ever understand. It is one of the problems that I'm sure a lot of us have. Stay strong and come here to talk.