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Wait!! "Misundertood" was MY word. It wasn't the original issue.

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Heh - sorry!

You know, though, in my case I can get REALLY caught up in negative feelings if I just pacify myself on my own. It ends up being wallowing. I'm not sure I agree with that advice to self-affirm all the time. I really rely on my therapist and friends to set me straight if I am misinterpreting something or feeling misunderstood or rejected (because face it -- when we're feeling sensitive, more than half of the time that we feel rejected is truly a misunderstanding anyway. Can't speak for the other half, though).

We're getting philosophical now... Fuzzy -- do you want to get back to you or do you prefer to talk in general terms?