That's okay, I saw my T for 9 years and terminated and got married in the interim and then 9 years after we terminated I saw her again for 9 years. At the END of the second nine years, she wrote me a check in my maiden name, she'd never "learned" my new name at all, even though my checks have both my and my husband's name on them and I wrote her what, at least 40 times a year x 9 years equals 360-400 checks and saw her in person 360 times?

LOL, it happens. If you see a lot of people, have a bunch of clients you are going to be thinking lots of things. Maybe that person forgot to pay your T and here you were paying, etc., wishful thinking on T's part that the other pay