being a psych major doesn't mean you can diagnose yourself! lots of people have bpd traits and honestly, i wouldn't WISH BPD on myself if i could have a choice about it.

it's a bpd thing about not being able to keep rational thoughts when you have a fight. or it is for me anyway. it's all about what you do when you calm down. do you apologise? Does he? Are you then able to talk about what you were just fighting about?