Hi, Nadell, welcome to PsychCentral.
Sounds like it is your problem and not his to solve. Rather than trying to get him to understand your problem, why not work on solving it instead? His understanding your misperceptions won't help him or you. Get some counseling help or figure out how to work on it yourself?
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