Hi Ladytee, its good to hear from you I was diagnosed with a dpd last october. Ive had cognitive analytical therapy from a psychologist. It was very useful. Now I'm having group psychotherapy to try to continue with the progress that I made in CATtherapy. I live in England by the way.

Ive had 2 long term relationships. My psychologist told me that the reason that I get abused by my partners is that I am so desperate to keep them that I allow them to behave in any way becos I show that I love them unconditionally and will put up with anything. Im without a partner at the moment but Im going thru hell becos I'm so frightened that my recent ex will find someone else. Im in a deeper depression than Ive been for months becos of it. I cant imagine what I need to do to start a normal relationship where I dont get abused. I dont think that anyone would want me anyhow becos I'm fat and depressed.

Im glad you posted. I was a bit disapointed that more people didnt post hear. I guess youve been waiting for a reply.

You say that you are thinking of leaving your current partner. I cant advise you about that becos Ive never managed to do it without having someone else waiting for me or going into crisis.

Take care, best wishes
DP1