Ok here is the issue. Recently after a stupid fight my husband passworded his iPod touch from me. Our whole relationship he has never passworded things from me.

This is what the fight was over: My husband downloaded a browser to his ipod that was passworded originally he told me the password....then later I took the ipod to put music on. He asked what I was doing very quickly so it piqued my suspicions. I checked and he had changed the browser password. I asked him for the new one and he refused. This made me suspicious. I didnt want the password so I could snoop on him but him telling me it shows that he has nothing to hide.

He now has the entire ipod passworded from me. I dont think there should be secrets in a marriage. I am completly open and honest with him. He knows all my passwords and even though he never looks at my stuff its my way of saying you can trust me, i have nothing to hide. When he had his ipod shuffle he had no problem with me using it. the touch has internet access now all of a sudden he doesnt want me near it. And he used to let me use the touch if he wasnt and everything. I dont want his password so i can snoop, i just want it because that shows he can be open and honest with me, has nothing to hide and also because i want things to be the way they were before: when we were in the car I could pick songs from my playlist or OUR playlist, or if i want to surprise him by putting some pictures on his ipod for him. If he has nothing to hide from me then I dont see a reason for him to password me from the ipod. He is trying to say its because he doesnt want people in his electronics....but I am his wife....i believe we should share everything. I dont try to say well I bought this so you cant use it....thats not how it works.

And another thing it has made him act different around me....he wont use it if im around, he waits till i walk out of the room. The whole thing is ridiculous. Im told im hovering now when before I was doing nothing wrong.